KNOW YOUR SELF for Serena Williams

KNOW YOUR SELF for Serena Williams — perSISTERS print in the Female Power Project.
You can purchase this print here.

Serena Jameka Williams was born on September 26, 1981. She is often called the greatest tennis player of all time. On August 9, 2022 she published a “farewell to tennis” in Vogue magazine, stating that she is “evolving” away from tennis, and will concentrate her energies on her family and her venture capital investments in women- and minority-owned companies. Still, on August 31, 2022, Serena beat the No. 2 ranked player to advance to the third round of the US Open tennis tournament. Her play in this tournament was a beautiful thing to behold. When asked in an on-court interview if she had surprised herself by playing at that level, she looked puzzled by the question and her answer was, “I’m just Serena.” She knows herself and what she is capable of. 

Here is the interview: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JYMYxpX_CoY

I loved her essay in Vogue and am excerpting some of her words below. The photos of her are amazing, too. She is just so formidable. Here is the Vogue link to her farewell to tennis:

https://www.vogue.com/article/serena-williams-retirement-in-her-own-words

“Believe me, I never wanted to have to choose between tennis and a family. I don’t think it’s fair. If I were a guy, I wouldn’t be writing this because I’d be out there playing and winning while my wife was doing the physical labor of expanding our family. . . . Don’t get me wrong: I love being a woman, and I loved every second of being pregnant with Olympia. I was one of those annoying women who adored being pregnant and was working until the day I had to report to the hospital—although things got super complicated on the other side. And I almost did do the impossible: A lot of people don’t realize that I was two months pregnant when I won the Australian Open in 2017. But I’m turning 41 this month, and something’s got to give.

I have never liked the word retirement. It doesn’t feel like a modern word to me. I’ve been thinking of this as a transition, but I want to be sensitive about how I use that word, which means something very specific and important to a community of people. Maybe the best word to describe what I’m up to is evolution. I’m here to tell you that I’m evolving away from tennis, toward other things that are important to me. A few years ago I quietly started Serena Ventures, a venture capital firm. Soon after that, I started a family. I want to grow that family.

One thing I’m not going to do is sugarcoat this. I know that a lot of people are excited about and look forward to retiring, and I really wish I felt that way.

Praise to these people, but I’m going to be honest. There is no happiness in this topic for me. I know it’s not the usual thing to say, but I feel a great deal of pain. It’s the hardest thing that I could ever imagine. I hate it. I hate that I have to be at this crossroads. I keep saying to myself, I wish it could be easy for me, but it’s not. I’m torn: I don’t want it to be over, but at the same time I’m ready for what’s next.

I’ve never been one to contain my emotions. I remember learning to write my alphabet for kindergarten and not doing it perfectly and crying all night. I was so angry about it. I’d erase and rewrite that A over and over, and my mother let me stay up all night while my sisters were in bed. That’s always been me. I want to be great. I want to be perfect. I know perfect doesn’t exist, but whatever my perfect was, I never wanted to stop until I got it right.

To me that’s kind of the essence of being Serena: expecting the best from myself and proving people wrong. There were so many matches I won because something made me angry or someone counted me out. That drove me. I’ve built a career on channeling anger and negativity and turning it into something good. My sister Venus once said that when someone out there says you can’t do something, it is because they can’t do it. But I did do it. And so can you.

I don’t particularly like to think about my legacy. I get asked about it a lot, and I never know exactly what to say. But I’d like to think that thanks to opportunities afforded to me, women athletes feel that they can be themselves on the court. They can play with aggression and pump their fists. They can be strong yet beautiful. They can wear what they want and say what they want and kick butt and be proud of it all. I’ve made a lot of mistakes in my career. Mistakes are learning experiences, and I embrace those moments. I’m far from perfect, but I’ve also taken a lot of criticism, and I’d like to think that I went through some hard times as a professional tennis player so that the next generation could have it easier. Over the years, I hope that people come to think of me as symbolizing something bigger than tennis. I admire Billie Jean because she transcended her sport. I’d like it to be: Serena is this and she’s that and she was a great tennis player and she won those slams.”

DESIGN NOTE
This is the second perSISTERS print I’ve made for Serena. The first I made in 2018, “SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO SAVE YOUR OWN LIFE.” In a way, that one could also have been KNOW YOUR SELF.